I am so happy you stumbled upon my blog! My name is Rebekah but most of my friends call me Beks. Lovelybeks is a name I came up with in high school and has stuck with me ever since. I hope you come to find my blog ~lovely~
I decided to start this blog at a time when everything in my life Is changing. I recently graduated college (5/11), will be starting my first ICU nursing job (7/15), getting married (12/15/18) and buying a house (TBD). Phew!That’s a lot. But, it will also give me such a plethora of topics to blog about. I hope you’re as excited about this new adventure as I am!!
I pray you will find my content unique and fulfilling! I will be blogging about everything happening in my life and anything that could benefit YOU, the reader! From wedding planning tips, fashion, lifestyle, travel, fitness, health and a little bit of faith in between!Because let’s be honest, who can get through this crazy life without a little help from the good Lord above!? I am open to all suggestions of topics you would like me to blog about – just reach out and let me know!
I’ll leave you on this rainy evening with one of my favorite quotes:
"Money can't buy happiness, that's what shopping is for"
For those of you who know me, you know that I always strive to be (and for the most part succeed) in being early for any obligation. Whether it be for a dentist appointment or meeting a friend for lunch, I like to be early.
I think this is because when I was a kid, growing up in a big family, it was always SO HARD for us to get places on time. I would get so embarrassed every time showing up late! Now I make it a priority to be fashionably ~early~
Here are a few little tips and tricks I use to always get places on time:
MAKE A SCHEDULE. If I know I have a busy day I will schedule out each hour of my day. I start at the end of the day and backtrack to determine what time I would need to start getting ready.
UTILIZE GOOGLE MAPS to see how long it will take you at “X” time to get to your destination. That way, you will be able to foresee the traffic and leave in plenty of time!
PLAN YOUR OUTFIT AHEAD OF TIME. I did this all of the time in high school and college where I had early mornings. I laid out each article of clothing and all the necessary accessories the night before. This saves you alll of the time scavenging through your closet the morning of!
GET A WATCH. This may seem obvious, but having a watch on your wrist (not just your phone) allows you to constantly know how much time left before you have to leave.
I just got this watch from MVMT and I am so obsessed to add it to my arm candy! They are currently having a big sale with many watches marked down. You can shop them here.
If you have any other tips for being on time feel free to leave them in the comments below or shoot me a DM! I’d love to know your advice🖤
Ladies – let’s talk bridal portraits. Bridal portraits are a hot topic, especially in the South. When I was engaged I had so many questions about them. Should I get them done? Are they worth it? What is the point of them? How much do they cost? What do I wear? The questions are endless! Hopefully, I can help answer these questions for you and take away some of your anxiety surrounding bridal portraits!
When I was deciding whether I was going to get bridal portraits done the first thing I considered was the cost. You need a bouquet, hair and makeup, and of course, the photographer! Truthfully, I was overwhelmed by how expensive it was going to be. I am going to break down this post into several sections on 1. why the cost is worth it and 2. a few money saving tips.
I worked with my florist to get a simple (yet beautiful!!) bouquet that was around $100. I wanted my portrait bouquet to be slightly different than my actual wedding day bouquet, which had pops of red roses. The reason I did this, is because wanted to keep my wedding bouquet extra special to me. So nothing would ever compare <3
Bridal Portrait Bouquet:
Wedding day bouquet:
Hair & Makeup:
I think this was one of the best reasons to get bridal portraits done. It was the absolute best trial run for my hair and makeup. I know that most makeup artists require a trial run, but to actually have your hair and makeup photographed changes the game. I learned so much about what I wanted different for my actual wedding day. A few examples:
My eyelashes were too heavy and weighed down my eyes.
I needed more bottom eyeliner for my eyes to really pop in pictures.
I wanted my hair to be longer for pictures so that I could put it to either side and it wouldn’t just fall straight back.
Not to mention, I was paying for a hair and makeup trial anyway, so why not get use out of it!? I scheduled my bridal portraits for the same day as my hair and makeup trial, and thus it was no extra cost!
Brides. I was there, I get it. Bridals are just another additional fee added on to your already piling up wedding expenses. But let me tell you, your wedding day is crazy. No matter how much time you “plan out” for pictures, you will be rushed. I got maybe five solo pictures of myself on our wedding day. The reason? I wanted pictures with family, my bridal party, long distance relatives/friends, etc. There is simply not enough time in the day to spend the time it takes to get really good bridal pictures. Spending the extra hundreds of dollars on your photographer for bridal portraits is so important. Notice how I said your photographer. I have seen other girls use a completely different (maybe cheaper?) photographer to do their bridals. Now, I can’t stress enough how much of a mistake this would be. It would be like doing a makeup trial run using none of the same products you will use on your actual wedding day. It is important to let your photographer know what angles you like, what you don’t like, etc. Another uncontrollable factor is the weather. If it is crappy weather, you can always reschedule bridal portraits. You don’t have that option with your wedding. The lighting was so much better on the day I took my bridal portraits and this added to the overall beauty of them! This is one of my favorite bridal portraits that my photographer took.
The Dress & Accessories:
So, we all love our wedding dress. If not, we wouldn’t have picked it! That is not to say that there may be one or two changes that need to be made to make it the perfect wedding dress. What better way to realize what those are, then to have 100+ photos taken of you in it? I realized that my dress gave me very unflattering side boob. There. I said it! My family thinks I am dramatic about this, but if it matters to you, then it is important! We made a few tweaks on my dress and got the issue corrected for my wedding day 🙂 I wore my wedding earrings and hairpiece for my bridals. We ended up deciding to go a different route with my hairpiece for the actual day. I also got to break in my shoes naturally, which made them much more bearable on my wedding day!
Last but not least, it was one of the most fun experiences of the whole wedding process. After all of the stress that goes into planning a wedding, this day was such a hidden gem. I got to play dress up in the most beautiful dress ever and feel like a celebrity for a few hours! I can’t stress enough how much fun it was.
Here is the proof:
Trust me, ladies, bridals are worth the time and money. I am soOoOo happy I elected to have them done. I had mine done 6 weeks before my wedding. Feel free to reach out to me if you have any questions at all!!! I hope this answered the majority of your questions.
If it’s from Trader Joe’s, it’s automatically heathy —right!?! Probably not the case, but I’m trying to convince myself of this after I ate a few too many chocolate peanut butter cups last night at work🙈🙈 I got this camo fur jacket for Christmas and it’s currently on major sale! It is so warm, flattering, and trendy. I am #obsessed !!
Shop my entire look here:
Happy hump day ladies! Hope you finish out the week strong!!